Apr 17 2011
There Are Specific Things Regarding Purchasing Used Motorcycles That You Really Need To Know Before Making A Deal
There have been three times in life when individuals have told me that I am too controlling. This is not really something that is good to hear. Every time I have heard this I’ve become pretty defensive and angry, but upon personal reflection I realize that the observations were correct. This is not the greatest feeling, yet I was pleased that I have folks that care enough about me to point out my mistakes to me. The only way we are really able to grow and change is when we realize what we are doing wrong.
My latest episode of being very controlling involved my eighteen year old son. He was looking for motorcycles for sale. I wanted him to have a look at used cars, but no. He isn’t into used cars, because bikes are much more attractive compared with used cars. He had been saving his very own money from a part time job for 2 years. He had talked about owning a bike since he was 10 years old. I have always been concerned about this because I know that there are lots of folks that get seriously hurt and killed in accidents every year.
A couple of weeks prior to his birthday he was looking at newspaper ads for motorbikes for sale. I went into my full litany about why this actually was not a very good idea. We ended up having an argument and both of us mentioned things that we regretted. I informed him that he would not own a motorbike while still living at home so he threatened to move out and things just escalated. I was feeling awful and was losing sleep. I didn’t want to back down from my own decision.
One of my co-workers who is also an excellent pal advised me that I was trying to protect and control my son and in the process was losing him. She pointed out that he was really very responsible. He had held the same job for 2 years and maintained good grades in school. He was responsible in driving the family car and he was not a risk taker. She pointed out that when he was 18 he would be an adult and I needed to give up trying to control his life.
She was right. It was difficult to hear and admit, but what she was actually saying was absolutely true. I called my spouse and asked him if he knew which of the motorcycles for sale our son was interested in. I recommended we help him get it as a gesture that I will support his decision to have a motorcycle and trusted that he will be safe with it. We told our son that night that we would help him purchase the motorbike as his birthday present. I apologized to him. This is one thing that I have discovered has helped in my relationship with our kids, the ability to admit being wrong and apologizing when I am.
There are many more types of vehicles that can be purchased pre-owned than just used cars. Each category has its own uniques selling points and information you should be aware of before you make a purchase. To find out more about and see a lot of great options, click here: Used Cars